Well, I failed today. This thing that I have been working on, for myself, I had a chance to practice it and I failed. BUT, the good thing is that I noticed it right away, and had a chance to "fix" it, whereas before, I would have just stewed.
Here's how it went....there was a situation, I wanted something to happen, and the conversation in my head goes on...."you should say something. you know this is what THEY want", so I said what I thought this person expected me to say, and then when they didn't act the way I expected, I got mad. They were suppose to say "No, you go ahead" or something like that. If I would have just spoken up about how I really felt, I wouldn't have spent the afternoon alone.
It's ok...i'm learning. Six months ago, I would have been mad for a long time and just spent the next few days saying nothing was wrong! Baby steps!
Sha Blee Blee
11 years ago
2 comments:
Its hard work! Your doing good! You cant change things if you dont do the work, right? Good job!
learning right there with ya and it is hard...
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