I've been thinking a lot lately about the way I perceive people. I've been trying really hard to look at people as individuals that need love, just the way Christ looks at us. With real needs, real hurts.....Like take for instance Wal-Mart. We all know what kind of feelings stepping into Wal-Mart brings for most of us! Well, I've started smiling at people. And if they will make eye contact with me, maybe a Hi! It's kinda weird the way they react. Some smile back, others pretend like they don't see you. But the other day, I had smiled at this lady, she smiled back (then I felt like I had this connection with her), and then I ran into her in the produce, so I helped her get one of those produce bags. She said thank you, I went on. Later, when we were checking out, she made it a point to stop me and say thank you again. Very sweet. That leads me to think about the way that I have thought about people growing up. I didn't take a lot of (individual) time for people I didn't know. If it didn't directly concern me, then, I just went on. Not trying to be rude, just minding my own business! Also, I think that I have allowed this disinterest in people, to develop an attitude about them. Judging them, if you will. Like if I saw them directly after church time, and they weren't in a dress or dressed up, they must be lost. Or if I heard someone saying a word I didn't approve of, it must mean their relationship with the Lord wasn't right. Then when we were living in Nashville, we had went to the early service and were out by 10:30am......roaming Nashville for a place to eat, during the time that "normal" people went to church!! Gasp! I said all that to say this, I don't want to put God in a box. Christians come in all shapes and sizes. And I am looking forward to getting to know people before I make assumptions about them. And by the way, try smiling at people you don't know, you may make a friend!